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Michelle Elisabeth Varghese's avatar

I appreciate you sharing your story Vinamrata! I come from a traditionally male dominated field (tech sales) as well and related to a lot of what you wrote. When I left my job, I knew I needed a break, but there was a part of me that really struggled with the idea that I was a woman leaving a male dominated space. I knew it wasn't my calling regardless, but I didn't want the perception to be that I couldn't even handle it. Of course, no one really cared except me, but it was a strange identity think I needed to detach from. Thank you for being so open about your experiences! You're so inspiring to me no matter what path you're on!

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Sonika's avatar

Hey Vinamrata,

This piece really spoke to and moved me. I can’t tell you how much I was nodding along to. As we’ve talked about it before, I’m taking time to rework my relationship to work, labor, and tech. This piece really reminded me that the frustration and burnout I experience may not be my own incompetency, but more so me trying my best to function in a system and environment that was not created for me flourish. Thank you so much for the vulnerability and sharing. Additionally, really great writing. I feel like you put in words something so many of us (female identifying people in tech and in the world) have been feeling. Thanks again.

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